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Curtis J. Romanowski

Curtis Romanowski

Romanowski Law Offices
402 Higgins Avenue
Brielle, NJ 08730

Brielle

New Jersey (NJ)

T: 732-603-8585
F: 732-603-8580

Practice Areas

Family Law

Appellate

Professional Liability: Plaintiff

Selected To

• New Jersey Super Lawyers 2011
• New Jersey Super Lawyers 2010
• New Jersey Super Lawyers 2009
• New Jersey Super Lawyers 2008
• New Jersey Super Lawyers 2007
• New Jersey Super Lawyers 2006
• New Jersey Super Lawyers 2005

Profile

With offices in Brielle and Metuchen, attorney Curtis J. Romanowski is co-author of the upcoming Gann Law Books treatise on Family Law. An authority on trial and settlement strategies for complex divorce & child custody cases, Mr. Romanowski sits on the Board of Governors of the New Jersey Association for Justice (NJAJ) and on the New Jersey State Bar Assn Family Law Executive Committee, serving on both Alimony and General Procedures & Rules Subcommittees, and as CLE Coordinator/NJ ICLE Liaison. A frequent lecturer and seminar developer for New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, Gann, AAML, NJAJ and AFCC, he is a Blue Ribbon Matrimonial Early Settlement Program Panelist, Counsel for Children, Guardian Ad Litem, Parenting Coordinator and Arbitrator. His professional advice column, "The Progressive Lawyer," appears in The Matrimonial Strategist.

About Curtis Romanowski

Law School: Ohio Northern University Pettit College of Law

Admitted: 1991, New Jersey

Professional Webpage: www.divorcenewjersey.net/New-Jersey-Divorce-Lawyer.php

Honors and Awards:

  • Former Director of the Negotiation Project for the Center for Bargaining Research, Romanowski has been credited as one of the co-founders of the Collaborative Divorce concept, 1990
  • Recognized as Blue Ribbon Early Settlement Program Panelist, Middlesex County Bar Association, 2006
  • On May 26, 2006, Romanowski addressed the New Jersey Supreme Court, advancing his thoughts and suggestions on Parenting Coordinators in New Jersey and the proposed Parenting Coordinator Rule of Court, 2006
  • In July of 2007, the New Jersey Lawyer recognized him as "a divorce mediation expert", New Jersey Lawyer, 2007
  • Romanowski was initially on the roster of approved Parenting Coordinators in all participating Pilot Program Counties; one of a very few non-mental health professionals to initially make the list, Parenting Coordinator, New Jersey Administrative Office of the Courts, 2007
  • Member, New Jersey State Bar Association Family Law Section Executive Committee, serving on both Alimony and General Procedures & Rules Subcommittees, and as CLE Coordinator/NJ ICLE Liaison. , 2009
  • Earned "Superb" 10.0/10 AVVO Rating, 2011

Special Licenses/Certifications:

  • Advanced Course on The Reid Technique of Interviewing and Interrogation
  • The Reid Technique of Interviewing and Interrogation
  • Certification - Performance Management (Aubrey Daniels Associates), 1986
  • Leader Effectiveness Training (L.E.T./Dr. Thomas Gordon), 1986
  • Certification - Advanced Performance Management (Aubrey Daniels Associates), 1987
  • Certification -  Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) (Otto Krueger Associates/Otto Krueger); fully qualified to administer the instrument and to provide feedback and analysis to clients regarding personality typology and temperament, 1988
  • Team Facilitator/Team Leader Training (Productivity Development Systems/PDS, Inc.), 1988
  • Advanced Competency Certification -  Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) (Otto Krueger Associates/Otto Krueger), 1989
  • Master Practitioner Certification - Neurolinguistic Programing/Ericksonian Hypnosis (Grinder-Delozier/John Grinder), 1991
  • Certification - Couples Communications (Interpersonal Communications, Inc./Dr. Sherod Miller), 1992
  • Certification - Completed an intensive 12-week training program provided by The Family Institute of New Jersey in Domestic Violence counseling, 1995
  • Certification - Completed 40-hour Divorce and Family Mediation Seminar conducted by the Institute for Dispute Resolution of New Jersey, 1995
  • Certification - Completed 50-hour supervised clinical internship in Divorce Mediation, conducted by the Institute for Dispute Resolution of New Jersey (formerly the Institute for Dispute Resolution of Seton Hall Law School); the Institute's seminar was recognized by the Administrative Office of the Courts of New Jersey, the New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators, and the Association for Conflict Resolution (formerly the Academy of Family Mediators), 1996

Bar/Professional Activity:

  • Member, Editorial Advisory Board: Quality Matters, an internationally circulated monthly magazine dedicated to furthering development of Continuing Quality Improvement
  • Member, Association for Psychological Type
  • Member, American Arbitration Association
  • Member, Family Law Section, New Jersey State Bar Association (NJSBA)
  • Member, National Association of Counsel for Children
  • Member, Board of Editors: Matrimonial Strategist Magazine
  • Member Executive Committee, Association of Family and Concilliation Courts, New Jersey Chapter, 2009
  • Member, New Jersey Association for Justice, 2011
  • Middlesex County Bar Association - Family Law Committee, 2011
  • New Jersey State Bar Association - Dispute Resolution Section, 2011
  • New Jersey State Bar Association - Family Law Section, 2011

Pro bono/Community Service:

  • Liaison to Committee on Judicial Education – NJ AFCC
  • Liaison to New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education – NJ AFCC
  • Steering Committee – NJ AFCC
  • Executive Committee – NJ AFCC
  • Chairman – Program Committee – NJ AFCC
  • Matrimonial Early Settlement Program Panelist, 2011

Scholarly Lectures and Writings:

Verdicts and Settlements:

  • Six year marriage. Evenly shared legal and residential custody of five-year-old son awarded to client father following three-day divorce trial, where wife's attorney was insisting upon sole legal and physical custody. Husband was ultimately designated as the parent of primary residence
  • Fourteen year marriage. Alimony and child support awarded to client wife at multi-day trial. Both parties were relatively young and wife was earning over 40% of the marital income
  • Nonmarital cohabitation relationship. Won 100% of home purchased in contemplation of marriage (which never occurred) for client father following multi-day trial, which was limited to the issues of entitlement to the home and child support. Our mid-trial request for legal briefing and argument regarding the partitioning of the home resulted in success
  • Ten year marriage. Successfully limited husband's alimony exposure to eight years at $1500 per month and one year at $1000 a month. Client husband earned $110,000 per year, while former wife was an unemployed full-time mother of three. Former wife's New Jersey divorce attorney insisted upon permanent or 16 years of limited duration alimony at $3500 per month going into trial, and failed. Additional parenting time for client father was also awarded
  • Ten year marriage. Client husband filed domestic violence complaint against wife during the pendency of New Jersey divorce and wife counterclaimed. Husband was awarded sole legal and physical custody of child
  • Ten year marriage. Husband made domestic violence complaint against client wife during the pendency of her New Jersey divorce. Successfully defended wife and obtained compensatory damages against husband for filing a frivolous claim
  • Ten year marriage. Permanent alimony and child support awarded to client wife at trial of hotly contested support issues. Wife was a young, able-bodied income earner and mother
  • Ten year marriage. Sole legal and physical custody of four-year-old son awarded to client father following ten day NJ custody trial. Consistently prevailed in related post-judgment litigation, which included New Jersey Appellate Division and New Jersey Supreme Court applications. Although client earned over $80,000 more than wife, successfully avoided any alimony award against him. In fact, former wife was ordered to pay child support. Case involved no less than six domestic violence complaints by former wife against client, all of which were successfully defended at multiple trials
  • Obtained $6.2 Million Divorce Settlement, Middlesex County, New Jersey, in a Complex, Multi-Party Suit, 2007
  • Obtained complete custody reversal for client-father of 11-year-old child, at conclusion of extensive trial, where child had been in the sole residential custody of mother virtually since birth. Father now enjoys sole residential custody with visitation by mother., 2011

Other Outstanding Achievements:

  • Romanowski also writes a monthly column, "Persuasion," for NJ Esq., 2009
  • Romanowski’s regularly featured professional advice column, "The Progressive Lawyer," appears in The Matrimonial Strategist, a nation-wide periodical published by Leader Publications, a division of American Lawyer Media Inc., 2009

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