Attorney Profile

Curtis J. Romanowski

Curtis Romanowski

Romanowski Law Offices
475 Main Street, Second Floor
Metuchen, NJ 08840
Contact Contact Curtis J. Romanowski
T: 732-603-8585
F: 732-603-8580

Visit: www.divorcenewjersey.com
Practice areas: Family Law (80%), Appellate (10%), Collaborative Law (10%)

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Curtis J. Romanowski limits his multi-attorney practice to Family Law. An authority on Trial Strategies for Divorce and Child Custody cases, he recently obtained a $6.2 million award in a complex, multi-defendant divorce. New Jersey Lawyer recognized him as a "divorce mediation expert" in both custody and economic aspects of Family Law cases. A frequent lecturer and seminar developer for NJ Institute for Continuing Legal Education, he serves as Court-Appointed General Equity Mediator, Blue Ribbon Matrimonial Early Settlement Program Panelist, Counsel for Children, Guardian Ad Litem, Parenting Coordinator and Arbitrator. His professional advice column, "The Progressive Lawyer," appears in The Matrimonial Strategist. Romanowski also writes a monthly column, "Persuasion," for NJ Esq.

Selected to:

New Jersey Super Lawyers 2009
New Jersey Super Lawyers 2008
New Jersey Super Lawyers 2007
New Jersey Super Lawyers 2006
New Jersey Super Lawyers 2005

About Curtis Romanowski

Admitted: 1991, New Jersey

Professional Webpage: www.divorcenewjersey.net/New-Jersey-Divorce-Lawyer.php

Honors and Awards: Member, New Jersey State Bar Association Family Law Section Executive Committee Alimony Guidelines Subcommittee, 2009, Earned "Superb" 10.0/10 AVVO Rating, 2009, In July of 2007, the New Jersey Lawyer recognized him as "a divorce mediation expert", New Jersey Lawyer, 2007, Romanowski was initially on the roster of approved Parenting Coordinators in all participating Pilot Program Counties; one of a very few non-mental health professionals to initially make the list, Parenting Coordinator, New Jersey Administrative Office of the Courts, 2007, On May 26, 2006, Romanowski addressed the New Jersey Supreme Court, advancing his thoughts and suggestions on Parenting Coordinators in New Jersey and the proposed Parenting Coordinator Rule of Court, 2006, Recognized as Blue Ribbon Early Settlement Program Panelist, Middlesex County Bar Association, 2006, Former Director of the Negotiation Project for the Center for Bargaining Research, Romanowski has been credited as one of the co-founders of the Collaborative Divorce concept, 1990
Special Licenses/Certifications: Certification - Completed 50-hour supervised clinical internship in Divorce Mediation, conducted by the Institute for Dispute Resolution of New Jersey (formerly the Institute for Dispute Resolution of Seton Hall Law School); the Institute's seminar was recognized by the Administrative Office of the Courts of New Jersey, the New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators, and the Association for Conflict Resolution (formerly the Academy of Family Mediators), 1996, Certification - Completed 40-hour Divorce and Family Mediation Seminar conducted by the Institute for Dispute Resolution of New Jersey, 1995, Certification - Completed an intensive 12-week training program provided by The Family Institute of New Jersey in Domestic Violence counseling, 1995, Certification - Couples Communications (Interpersonal Communications, Inc./Dr. Sherod Miller), 1992, Master Practitioner Certification - Neurolinguistic Programing/Ericksonian Hypnosis (Grinder-Delozier/John Grinder), 1991, Advanced Competency Certification -  Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) (Otto Krueger Associates/Otto Krueger), 1989, Certification -  Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) (Otto Krueger Associates/Otto Krueger); fully qualified to administer the instrument and to provide feedback and analysis to clients regarding personality typology and temperament, 1988, Team Facilitator/Team Leader Training (Productivity Development Systems/PDS, Inc.), 1988, Certification - Advanced Performance Management (Aubrey Daniels Associates), 1987, Leader Effectiveness Training (L.E.T./Dr. Thomas Gordon), 1986, Certification - Performance Management (Aubrey Daniels Associates), 1986
Bar/Professional Activity: New Jersey State Bar Association - Family Law Section, 2009, New Jersey State Bar Association - Dispute Resolution Section, 2009, Middlesex County Bar Association - Family Law Committee, 2009, Member, New Jersey Association for Justice, 2009, Member Executive Committee, Association of Family and Concilliation Courts, New Jersey Chapter, 2009
Scholarly Lectures and Writings: 2009 Family Law Summer Institute, Speaker, Strategic Considerations in Dealing with Custody and Parenting Time Experts, New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, 2009, Essential Tips You Need to Know About Oral Advocacy in Family Law Cases, Seminar Developer/Author/Speaker-Moderator, The Art of Oral Advocacy: How to Become an , New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, 2009, How to Settle Divorce Cases, Speaker, Gann Law Books, 2009, Mandatory Audio-Recording of Forensic Interviews in Child Custody Cases, Mandatory Audio-Recording of Forensic Interviews in Child Custody Cases, New Jersey Lawyer Magazine, 2009, Meadowlands Seminar 2009, Participant, Matrimonial Law Evidence Jeopardy, New Jersey Association for Justice, 2009, 2008 AAML Family Forum: An In-Depth Look at Family Law Motion Practice, Speaker, All aspects of Pendente Lite Motions and Briefs, New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education; American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers, New Jersey Chapter; New Jersey State Bar Association, 2008, 2008 Family Law Summer Institute: a Master Class, Speaker; Seminar Materials Author, Pendente Lite Motions; Custody and Parenting Time Motions; In Limine Motions; Post Judgement Modification and Enforcement Motions; Post Judgment Custody Motions, including Removal of a Child from New Jersey; Motions to Enforce Pre-nuptial Agreements; Coun, New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, 2008, Pretrial and Trial Strategies for Family Law Cases: the Definitive Guide - Advanced Full-Day Masters Program, Moderator, Speaker & Seminar Developer, All aspects of Family Law Trial Preparation, Stategy and Execution, New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, 2008, Trial of a Custody Case, Moderator, Speaker & Seminar Developer, Important Aspects of Strategic Preparation and Execution of Child Custody Trials, New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, 2008, Pretrial and Trial Strategies for Family Law Cases: The Definitive Guideline, Moderator, Speaker & Seminar Developer, Divorce Trial Advocacy Seminar, New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, 2007, 2007 Family Law Summer Institute, Speaker, Trial Strategies and Ethics, New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, 2007, 2005 Family Law Summer Institute, Speaker, Conducting Family Part Discovery; Preparation of Pendente Lite Applications, New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, 2005, 2004 Family Law Summer Institute: The Law & The Pragmatics of Practice, Speaker, Preparation of Pendente Lite Applications, New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, 2004, Seventh Annual Family Law Summer Institute, Speaker, Settlement Conferences with the Court; Trial Techniques, New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, 2002, Symposium on High Conflict Families and the Courts: An International Showcase. Lecture and practical skills workshop at the AFCC Northeast Regional Conference, co-sponsored by the Educational Assistance Corporation (EAC, Inc.) and Hofstra Law School. The AFCC brings together judicial officers, lawyers, mediators, custody evaluators, psychologists, counselors, parent educators, researchers and other professionals who work with children and families in conflict, Workshop Leader/Developer, Considerations for Implementing a Collaborative Law Practice, Association of Family and Concilliation Courts, 2002, Presentation of Progressive Divorce concept, a much improved approach to Collaborative Law models, with discussion panel including Family Practice Committee Members Hon. Michael K. Diamond, J.S.C., Hon. Deanne M. Wilson, J.S.C. and former Family Law Section Chair, Cary Chiefetz, Esq., Seminar Leader/Developer, Progressive Divorce®: Making Best Practices Better by Getting There First, Association of Family and Concilliation Courts - New Jersey Chapter, 2002, Progressive Divorce® Approach to Eliminating Problems Intrinsic to Existing Collaborative Law Models, Seminar Leader/Developer, Dispute Resolution Section Seminar, Dispute Resolution Section Section - New Jersey State Bar Association, 2002, Sixth Annual Family Law Summer Institute, Speaker, Child Support Calculation; Key Considerations & Strategies, New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, 2001, Containing Conflict in Family Law Cases, a multi-disciplinary seminar, Speaker, Collaborative Problem Solving; Expert Interviews of Children, Presented by the New Jersey Chapter of the Association of Family & Conciliation Courts in cooperation with NJ ICLE, 2001, Children, Divorce & Custody: Lawyers and Mental Health Professionals Working Together with a Focus on Alternate Dispute Resolution in Child Custody Cases, Speaker, Collaborative Divorce, New Jersey Institute for Continuing Legal Education, 2001
Verdicts and Settlements: Obtained $6.2 Million Divorce Settlement, Middlesex County, New Jersey, in a Complex, Multi-Party Suit, 2007, Ten year marriage. Sole legal and physical custody of four-year-old son awarded to client father following ten day NJ custody trial. Consistently prevailed in related post-judgment litigation, which included New Jersey Appellate Division and New Jersey Supreme Court applications. Although client earned over $80,000 more than wife, successfully avoided any alimony award against him. In fact, former wife was ordered to pay child support. Case involved no less than six domestic violence complaints by former wife against client, all of which were successfully defended at multiple trials, Ten year marriage. Permanent alimony and child support awarded to client wife at trial of hotly contested support issues. Wife was a young, able-bodied income earner and mother, Ten year marriage. Husband made domestic violence complaint against client wife during the pendency of her New Jersey divorce. Successfully defended wife and obtained compensatory damages against husband for filing a frivolous claim, Ten year marriage. Client husband filed domestic violence complaint against wife during the pendency of New Jersey divorce and wife counterclaimed. Husband was awarded sole legal and physical custody of child, Nonmarital cohabitation relationship. Won 100% of home purchased in contemplation of marriage (which never occurred) for client father following multi-day trial, which was limited to the issues of entitlement to the home and child support. Our mid-trial request for legal briefing and argument regarding the partitioning of the home resulted in success, Fourteen year marriage. Alimony and child support awarded to client wife at multi-day trial. Both parties were relatively young and wife was earning over 40% of the marital income, Six year marriage. Evenly shared legal and residential custody of five-year-old son awarded to client father following three-day divorce trial, where wife's attorney was insisting upon sole legal and physical custody. Husband was ultimately designated as the parent of primary residence, Ten year marriage. Successfully limited husband's alimony exposure to eight years at $1500 per month and one year at $1000 a month. Client husband earned $110,000 per year, while former wife was an unemployed full-time mother of three. Former wife's New Jersey divorce attorney insisted upon permanent or 16 years of limited duration alimony at $3500 per month going into trial, and failed. Additional parenting time for client father was also awarded
Other Outstanding Achievements: Romanowski’s regularly featured professional advice column, "The Progressive Lawyer," appears in The Matrimonial Strategist, a nation-wide periodical published by Leader Publications, a division of American Lawyer Media Inc., 2009, Romanowski also writes a monthly column, "Persuasion," for NJ Esq., 2009


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