A Maryland Lawyer Can Help You Find a Gestational Carrier

As told to Andrew Brandt | Reviewed by Canaan Suitt, J.D. | Last updated on April 25, 2025 Featuring practical insights from contributing attorney Jennifer Fairfax

If you’re an intended parent in Maryland looking for a surrogate, family law expert Jennifer Sue Hollander Fairfax says you have a few different options under Maryland law.

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Option 1: Friends-and-Family Method

The first option is the friends-and-family method. I tell intended parents that they should reach out to friends and family to see if there’s anyone they know who has had a child and is willing to be a carrier for them.

I do a lot of cases like that—literally next-door neighbors, former college roommates, cousins, sisters, sisters-in-law. It’s the most personal and least expensive adoption available: They often won’t charge like a commercial surrogate, there’s a higher level of compassion, and you don’t have to pay for a program to find the carrier.

For the purpose of finding a surrogate, the friend-or-family option is probably going to be $20,000 or less since most of the time, those surrogates don’t take a fee. They just want their uncovered medicals paid and their travel, childcare, and lost wages covered.

Option 2: Do-It-Yourself Method

Next, there’s the do-it-yourself option, which involves online forums like SurroMomsOnline. On these platforms, some women are former surrogates, while others want to be surrogates.

You can also run ads in newspapers, magazines, online, or on Facebook pages. [Here, the surrogate mother] is a stranger, but you’re not using a professional to help find the surrogate; you’re asking her the questions, and if you’re my client, I can help do a questionnaire to make sure, preliminarily, that it’s a good match.

For the DIY [option], it’s probably going to be somewhere between $20,000 and $30,000. These surrogates will sometimes not take a full fee, and you can negotiate because it’s independent.

[After a match], lawyers generally do the contract… When the carrier is pregnant, you have to get a birth order to ensure the intended parents are on the birth certificate… Most contracts take us about three to four weeks. We can do a rush if we absolutely have to, and we charge more.

— Jennifer Fairfax

Option 3: Surrogacy Program

The next option is a surrogacy program, and there are two types:

1. Attorney-Run Programs

The first type is an attorney-run program. This is where a licensed attorney creates a matching program within their law practice. The intended parents retain the lawyer, who becomes their attorney throughout the process and then helps them find the surrogate through their internal matching program.

Once there’s a match, the attorney handles the whole process, including legal issues, and the gestational carrier is referred out for separate counsel.

2. Non-Attorney-Run Programs

And then there are the non-attorney-run programs. A lot of people tend to lean towards this one, and a lot of the time, these programs are run by former intended parents, gestational carriers, or medical or mental health professionals.

The programs focus exclusively on the matching. They get to know the intended parents, advertise in their networks for the surrogates, and interview the surrogates. They spend a lot of time figuring out the fit, and then they match them. Then, there’s a lot of counseling and support services. They’re focused on… overseeing the relationship between the parties.

Most of the programs charge anywhere between $15,000 and $20,000—for just their services. And then the surrogate is going to cost $30,000 or more. The attorney-run programs are a little more expensive; some of that is due to the crossover in the duties, as they’re dabbling in the matching part of it at their hourly rate.

What Happens After a Match?

[After a match], lawyers generally do the contract… and the contract fees are going to be under $5,000 for everybody. When the carrier is pregnant, you have to get a birth order to ensure the intended parents are on the birth certificate. Our firm charges like $2,500 to do it. Some charge more, some less, but I’d say $3,000 or less. Most contracts take us about three to four weeks. We can do a rush if we absolutely have to, and we charge more.

Then, we’re just available. And if something comes up, they can call us. We keep a file open until the baby is born.

Find a Family Law Attorney with Experience in Surrogacy

If you’re in the state of Maryland and considering gestational surrogacy—or are looking for a gestational carrier—make sure you have an experienced and reputable attorney representing your legal rights during the surrogacy process. And remember: Not every family law attorney or firm works in surrogacy laws. For more information on this area, see our overview of family law.

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