What Are the Legal Difficulties When You Marry a Foreigner?

It used to be the stuff of romantic comedies: French non-citizen who wants a green card marries an uptight environmentalist interested in New York City apartments. INS interviews and deportation amid professions of love ensue. Simpler times. 

Attorneys say seeking permanent resident status through marriage to a U.S. citizen can give an immigrant a more secure legal status. But, they add, the government has gotten better at identifying people who are actually in make-believe relationships or sham marriages.

“Now more than ever,” says Susan Moss, founding partner of the 22-lawyer family law firm Chemtob, Moss, Forman & Beyda, “the authorities are really looking for green-card marriages.”

Seeking Legal Advice for a Foreign Spouse

Attorneys aren’t bad at sussing this out, either. Michael Wildes at Wildes & Weinberg, whose father, Leon, represented John Lennon in his lawsuit against the U.S. government in the 1970s, says his firm has never lost a marriage immigration case. The key, he adds, is meeting all his prospective clients in person and making sure they’re telling the truth before agreeing to represent them. The last time he refused to handle a case?

“Last week,” he says. Two male roommates—a citizen and a non-citizen—wanted to hire him so they could get married and the non-citizen could get a green card. But as Wildes questioned them, the citizen he was merely doing his roommate a favor by helping him get a green card. Wildes suggested they find a different lawyer.

But even people who are legitimately in love can be rejected if they aren’t careful.

Proving Your Love for a Marriage Certificate

If you’re thinking of marrying an immigrant, says Moss, save your love letters and other souvenirs of the relationship. “For a green card… spouses must show wedding pictures, vacation pictures, and other evidence indicating that they have a real relationship and a real marriage,” she says. “The spouses need to create a united front.”

Hiring a lawyer to help navigate the green card process typically costs between $2,500 and $7,500, but it can dramatically increase chances of success.

Lawyers also warn that immigrants who have had past issues, such as a deportation order—or even merely overstaying a student or tourist visa—cannot expect to wipe the slate clean by marrying a citizen.

“If you had past immigration problems, getting married will not make them disappear,” Moss says.

Here are some questions a couple might be asked during a green card hearing:

• What color is your spouse’s toothbrush?
• How many locks are on your front door?
• When did you two become romantic?
• What interests or hobbies do you share?
• How many people attended your wedding?
• What kind of cake did you have at the wedding?
• Which side of the bed does your spouse sleep on?
• What time does your spouse usually get up in the morning?
• Who does the grocery shopping? Cooking?
• Who takes the photos at your family celebrations?
• Where do you keep your spare toilet paper?

When U.S. Immigration Law Gets in the Way

Indeed, some couples have emerged elated from a hearing granting the immigrant spouse a green card, only to be met by waiting ICE officers ready to carry out earlier deportation orders.

Moss says that once a green card is granted, the holder can still be deported for a number of reasons, including criminal offenses, failure to pay taxes, or failure to file a current address with the government. Once full approval is granted, green card holders can get a divorce without losing their green card status—in most cases.

Gretchen Schumann, a founding partner of the Manhattan firm Rabin Schumann and Partners, says special rules still apply to “conditional” green card holders—those granted green cards after being married to an American for fewer than two years. “A divorce may jeopardize their status,” she says.

However, where the spouses cannot apply jointly to remove the conditions, a waiver process is available for legitimate marriages that go sour, she adds.

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